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发表于 2012-6-18 15:02:56
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The Reversed Cultural Shock
I remember reading the article talking about some people stay in country long enough and when they come back to their original country, they find themselves not used to or even not comfortable with the life and culture once they were born with. People called it “reversed cultural shock”. Apparently, the US and China have many things uncommon, from the political system to how people do business. It is impressive to realize the difference when I have experiences in both countries for a while.
This is my second summer to come back to China. Apart from enjoying the happiness to see the family and friends, I have to reconnect myself to the rules and norms here, living as a Chinese in China. However, I wasn’t happy the first day on the street. The street is as crowded as it is in New York City, but people seem much more impatient. Horns blare at pedestrians; people go across the main street when the traffic light is still red; the rule of yielding traffic never works well. I have to watch out myself not to be hit by any car. It is scary. I then realize I have been too spoiled with the gentle drivers back in Austin: they always stop to let me go through first. I believe the safety of life and on the road as well as traffic laws should be always respected by every individual no matter where they are.
I am not supposed to be surprised or uncomfortable when I come back to China. It has been like this for a long time and I have stayed here for more than 20 years. Isn’t it? It seems awkward for people to say excuse me or thank you here. Being warm-hearted could be thought with special purpose and people are reluctant to offer help to people who need. Is it the reason why many people who have long been abroad are reluctant to come back because of the reversed cultural shock from their original countries? I believe they still love their own countries, their families and friends.
The current technology advances enable us to communicate with each other anytime, anywhere. The information about any subject from the media is also overwhelming, whereas the way people think, or the “culture” will never evolve as fast as a skype call. The two most frequent questions I have been asked is whether I will stay in the US and what the life looks like there. I understand even I were able to tell every difference between Chinese cuisine and Mexican or Italian one, they still wouldn’t know what it tastes like in the US.
It is usually taken for granted that once students are able to survive the English speaking environment and have progress academically, everything will be fine sooner or later. However, it is never easy to be in a different country as a young adult. Surviving in class and experiencing another culture is two very different stories to me. I find out many Chinese students tend to congregate as exclusive groups without talking to other students of different nationalities, which not only makes them isolated, but also reduces their precious opportunities to experience a different culture. It is then not surprising to see they won’t speak good English even after they stay in the US for a couple of years. Experiencing different cultures is not just go traveling or have the taste of different cuisines, it is a more comprehensive and critical understanding of one culture trough what we see and hear, from daily conversation to sitting in classroom, from reading newspapers to watching TVs. It also promotes a more critical understanding of their own country, including political, economic and social aspects. To achieve that goal, there are two things need to be done. 1. One must have a stronger language skill in order to communicate fluently with other students. Lack of enough speaking English skill keeps Chinese students from conducing further conversation and interaction. Language is the tool to communicate and exchange thoughts. English use is more than just sitting in class and doing homework in English. It should be long-term learning process through speaking and reading, much from outside of the class. Currently, I found out many Chinese students have the illusion that they believe they have mastered English because they prove their academic excellence. For some subjects, it is not hard to get good grades without much English language use, but it does not mean the language learning process is over. 2. The acceptance of culture difference. It is more of a psychological barrier to many Chinese students that they feel uncomfortable to talk to people from other countries. Especially when local Chinese live as a group, it is regarded as rebellious for one individual student to seek life in English speaking circle without sticking to the Chinese one. It is not objective to judge which culture is superior, but different cultures should be treated with respect and tolerance. Meanwhile, one should be able to open their minds to get to know another culture other than their own especially if they stay in another country.
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